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My name is Tina, I am 33 years old, I have been a single mother since I was 18 years old. I have been unemployed for almost 2 years now, (I know so has everyone else and I don't expect much sympathy in that department). I recently got married and am enjoying my new life with my husband ( Who was also unemployed) and my 2 daughters. I have been an overweight individual my entire life. I have done all the diets imaginable until now. I have decided the one thing I didn't try whole hearted was excercise. So now I have taken advantage of the facilities our community offers. I feel pretty good about getting to gym 4 times a week to do the tredmill ( Gotta start somewhere). I am actively looking for employment, but here comes the true problem I have my teeth. I used to have such beautiful teeth until my 2nd child ( by the age 24) and everything just went downhill. I will say the responibilty lies mostly in my lap. I had terrible morning sickness that struck at any and every meal, every single thing made me sick I tried so hard to brush and floss everytime I was sick and sometimes even that made me sick. So I basically just gave up (terrible I know). After birth I went to the dentist but so much needed to be done I just couldn't afford it (even with insurance), so I just got work done when I really needed it one tooth at a time if you will. Then I found more and more teeth were falling apart (periodic disease). And I just couldn't keep up, then I grew so embarrassed that I stopped going all together. Now I have no insurance and a mouth full of rotten and digusting teeth. I want to get a job so badly but I am so self consious of my teeth I never smile. I truly mean that NEVER, not even around my children it kills me inside that I can't smile. Who wants to hire someone who never smiles?  I am so worried about dying because of my rotting teeth. How did things get so bad? Where is there help for someone like me? I have no money, no insurance, just a rotten mouth. I am working on my overwieght issue but I have no idea how to take care of my mouth. If I could make my own teeth I would. I would pull out each of my teeth and make new ones but obviously this is unrealistic so I just sit here and search for any and everything I could do. Please please if your out there help me! I would even be a poster child for why you need too take of your teeth if I could just my fixed. I am not opposed to wearing dentures at this point I would do just about anything to smile again.

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Starshine
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You are welcome Tina and I hope you get your teeth fixed. Let me know how it turns out. And there are food banks in CA too. You can call 211 to ask about them and also 866 3 hungry. And sometimes food banks have clothes too. There is alway freecylce.org for that and other things too.

Good luck

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Urgrl
 in response to Starshine...   Thank you very much any and all information is helpful, Tina
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Starshine

Hi

You are doing good with taking on the weight loss with the treadmill and that is a big step in the right direction so you should congratulate yourself for that. Now for your teeth. 

Try this link to see if there is a free dental clinic in your area 

http://www.freemedicalcamps.com/vcity.php?stateid=CA

And my blog has more information here and about where to find work

http://starshine1.aidpage.com/

I know it is hard to find work but see my blog and think about what you love to do 

I hope this helps some for your teeth. And universities that teach students to be dentists have dental clinics that have low fees too. I have used them when I was a child as my mom took us to them.

good luck

Starshine

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